Love unconditionally

Falling in love is a beautiful experience to have when you are starting a relationship with someone.

Everything seems just right and peachy right?

What goes wrong sometimes?

Here is an example.

A woman meets a man. As they spend more time together, she is really into him. There she goes. She is falling in love with him.

She is in love and she has fallen hard! What does she do next?

She gives it up.

No not sex, that could or could not have happened here. What does she give up? Herself: Her interests, Her time with mom shopping at the mall. 
Her time with her friends, her Single friends (Don’t you hate it when as soon as a man walks into your female friends life, they sorta fall off the planet?) 
Her hobbies-she used to run 3x a week. Or go to the gym, Or read a book a week. She might have enjoyed taking her dog to the beach whatever it is! She put herself and her likes aside so she could spend more “quality time” with her man.

Only problem is that just when she ‘gives it all up, she is no longer the woman that her man fell in love with. So what does it mean again to be a ‘smart woman’ in love? Know one truth about love and relationships.

You must love your man unconditionally without losing yourself.

I will tell you that is one of biggest mistakes a woman makes when getting involved in a serious relationship. To be so engrossed in a man’s life that she starts to neglect my her own life..

People at my school are all the same, it scares me…

I don’t ask for much, I just want to be happy.